Worried parent

One of the hardest things for parents or carers to discover is that their child may have sexually harmed or abused another child.

In this situation, denial, shock and anger are normal reactions. If it is not responded to quickly and sensitively, the effect on the whole family can be devastating. It is vital to get professional advice as soon as you suspect something is wrong.

The positive message is that early help for the child or young person and their family can make a real difference. Evidence suggests the earlier children get help, the more chance there is of preventing them moving on to more serious behaviour. It is important to be alert to the early warning signs that something is going wrong. Our parents and carers website; Parents Protect! offers more information about signs to look out for.

If you are in this situation, remember: you are not on your own. Many other parents have been through similar experiences and, as a result, the child and family found the help they needed. The first step is to talk it over with someone else.

If you are at all worried over a child’s sexual behaviour then call the Stop it Now! Freephone, anonymous and confidential helpline on 0808 1000 900 for advice, support and information.

You can message the helpline using our secure messaging service by clicking here. Our messaging service is not able to offer an immediate response due to high demand. We aim to respond to messages within 5-7 working days. If your enquiry is urgent please call the confidential helpline.

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