How do I tell the children?

How to tell children that their father, or someone close to them, has been viewing sexual images of children is one of the most difficult issues that mothers (and other family members) face.  There is no one, easy answer; how much and what you say will depend on individual circumstances and the age of the children.

For advice on talking to children about a partner’s offending please click here.

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