If someone you know is engaging in sexual thoughts about children it can carry risks, not only for the individuals experiencing these thoughts but also potentially for the well-being of children they come into contact with in real life. The risk can be that by indulging in sexual fantasies about children, especially if someone is aroused by these thoughts, that they reinforce their attraction to children; this could lead to reduced control, an increased curiosity to look for indecent images of children and take you closer to harming a child.
The relationship between thoughts and actions
- Creating barriers between the fantasy space and the real-world space can reduce the likelihood of acting on fantasies. This might involve limiting access to children and opportunities to offend.
- Recognizing potential future risks and identifying triggering situations and emotions can help individuals develop strategies to manage their fantasies. Employing techniques for managing these thoughts is essential.
- Investing in positive future endeavours can divert attention away from harmful fantasies and behaviours. A well-rounded and fulfilling life can act as a protective factor.
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