Wellbeing, self-care and relationship support information for adult family members and friends of people who they suspect or know may be engaging in inappropriate thoughts or behaviour involving children. Wellbeing and self-care are vitally important and you can discover some great self-care tips and techniques to help you cope during this difficult time.
Where to find support and report concerns
Many people are distressed after a loved one’s arrest and may have concerns or require support.
Self-care tips and calming techniques
Self-care is important because it helps to improve our own physical, mental and emotional health.
How do I tell about the offending?
The first step involves working out who you want to tell. This decision can be difficult and you might be worried.
Supporting children in the family
If someone in your family is under investigation and have access to children, it’s important to understand how this situation will be handled.
Relationships with others
After the arrest of your loved one, it’s natural for your relationship with them to change, and you may find it challenging to understand what they’ve done.
Criminal justice process
The criminal justice process can be complicated and full of jargon. This section aims to talk you through the process.
If you are concerned about the media
The media don’t publish information about every sexual offence committed against a child, but it’s something people often tell us they’re worried about.
Partner testimonies
The sudden realisation that a loved one has been leading a double-life, particularly involving children, can be extremely devastating for partners and family members.
If you have any concerns, questions, or would just like to talk about what you are going through, our experienced, non-judgemental helpline advisors are here to support you. You can stay anonymous and don’t have to give your real name, location or any contact details. If you’re not ready to speak to anyone yet, you can also use our live chat or send a secure email.
