Wellbeing, self-care and relationships

For wives and partners, parents, adult family members and friends of people who they suspect or know may be engaging in inappropriate behaviour involving children.

Where to find support and report concerns

Many people are distressed after a loved one’s arrest and may have concerns or require support. 

Self-care tips and calming techniques

Self-care is important because it helps to improve our own physical, mental and emotional health. 

How do I tell about the offending?

The first step involves working out who you want to tell. This decision can be difficult and you might be worried.

Supporting children in the family

If someone in your family is under investigation and have access to children, it’s important to understand how this situation will be handled.

Relationships with others

After the arrest of your loved one, it’s natural for your relationship with them to change, and you may find it challenging to understand what they’ve done.

Criminal justice process

The criminal justice process can be complicated and full of jargon. This section aims to talk you through the process. 

If you are concerned about the media

The media don’t publish information about every sexual offence committed against a child, but it’s something people often tell us they’re worried about.

Partner testimonies

The sudden realisation that a loved one has been leading a double-life, particularly involving children, can be extremely devastating for partners and family members.

Contact us

Our confidential helpline is free and available to anyone concerned about the safety of children.

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