Motivation for illegal online sexual behaviour
- boredom
- low self-esteem
- stress
- curiosity
- desensitising to legal adult pornography
- sexual gratification
- loneliness
- no sex life or decreased sex life
- excitement
- attraction to children
- comfort
- a ‘buzz’ or risk taking
- relationship problems
- sex addiction
Motivations are different for everyone and motivations can be different for different types of illegal online sexual behaviours. For example, while someone may look at illegal sexual images of children due to a desensitisation to legal adult pornography, they might have sexual conversations online with minors to deal with their loneliness and to seek a connection.
Our own research with our service users who have engaged in sexual communications with minors found that some of the reasons why people may have such conversations online include:
- Issues with relationships and intimacy in their offline lives and finding it easier to connect with others (especially young people) online
- Escalating online behaviour, including the use of legal adult pornography or sexual chats with adults
- Enjoying sexual ‘role-play’ chats
- Considering the online world a ‘fantasy world’, disconnected from the offline world (“It’s just words on a screen”)
The reasons why people may use or produce images of non-real children (like reading stories or using drawings, manga/anime, or computer/ AI-generated images) can be similar as the ones listed above, but may also include:
- Pushing boundaries of what is illegal
- Artistic expression
- Using images to introduce sexual topics in online conversations
- Financial motivation to produce material
- These types of material may be ‘easier’ to produce than illegal images showing actual abuse of children
- Networking with others
- Generating and indulging in sexual fantasies
- The use of such material may feel easier to justify (“It’s not a real child, so it’s okay”).
Starting point
Using the quiz below, select your current level of knowledge and understanding about your online behaviour.
Q1: I can identify my motivations for illegal online behaviour
1 being I have very little knowledge and 10 being I have a secure understanding
Q2: I can name triggers for my illegal online behaviour
1 being I have very little knowledge and 10 being I have a secure understanding
Q3: I can identify other life experiences that may influence my online behaviour
1 being I have very little knowledge and 10 being I have a secure understanding
Q4: I understand how I came to first behave illegally online
1 being I have very little knowledge and 10 being I have a secure understanding
Q5: I am aware of my patterns of internet use and when I am most likely to behave illegally
1 being I have very little knowledge and 10 being I have a secure understanding
Understanding your score
Very little knowledge - your score suggests that you may have very little knowledge and understanding surrounding your online sexual behaviour. Completing this module could be really helpful for you to increase your knowledge surrounding your motivations for behaving illegally online, as well as your understanding of how your illegal online sexual behaviour started.
Understanding your score
Some understanding - your score suggests that you have some understanding surrounding your online sexual behaviour. Completing this module could be really helpful for you to increase your knowledge further around why you might be behaving illegally online.
Understanding your score
Secure understanding - your score suggests that you have a secure understanding surrounding your online sexual behaviour. This is an important step in being able to stop this behaviour. Completing this module could be helpful for you to develop your understanding further of how you started behaving illegally online.
Understanding your score
Once you have completed this module on understanding why, you may also find it helpful to complete the module on Triggers (hyperlink), which will help you to develop an understanding of the different types of triggers for online illegal behaviour, including your own triggers.
If you have very little knowledge or some understanding, this section will be really helpful for you to increase your knowledge around why you might be behaving illegally online.