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Still confused?

Answer these questions honestly for yourself.

  1. Have you ever told yourself "he/she is mature for his/her age" or something similar to make yourself feel better about your sexual thoughts or behaviours toward children or underage teenagers?
  2. Have you ever wanted to stop fantasising about or touching children or underage teenagers in a sexual way, or looking at sexual images of children, but did it again?
  3. Do you find that romantic/sexual fantasies about, or sexual behaviour towards, children or underage teenagers interfere with your relationships at home or work?
  4. Does your sexual attraction to children or underage teenagers conflict with your spiritual beliefs or moral values?
  5. Has your sexual attraction to children or underage teenagers ever left you feeling worried, frightened, ashamed, hopeless, alienated from others or suicidal?
  6. Have you ever felt that your life would be better if you were not sexually attracted to children or underage teenagers?

Did you answer YES to any of these questions? If so, we urge you to call the Stop it Now! Freephone, anonymous and confidential helpline on 0808 1000 900 for advice, support and information.

You can message the helpline using our secure messaging service by clicking here. Our messaging service is not able to offer an immediate response due to high demand. We aim to respond to messages within 5-7 working days. If your enquiry is urgent please call the confidential helpline. 

Online reources

We also encourage you to look at our Get Help and Get Support websites.

Get Help is a self-help website with a huge range of online resources, advice and support that will help you stop looking at indecent images of children.

Get Support offers advice on managing inappropriate thoughts about children and young people. You will not be asked for any details that may identify you, and the websites are completely anonymous.

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